Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Colleen Hoover

Slammed
-Find a balance between head and heart. Hopefully you've found that Lake, and you can help Kel sort it out when he gets to that point.
-Push your boundaries, that's what they're there for.
-I'm stealing this snippet from your favorite band, Lake. "Always remember there is nothing worth sharing, like the love that let us share our name."
-Don't take life too seriously. Punch it in the face when it needs a good hit. Laugh at it.
-And Laugh a lot. Never go a day without laughing at least once.
-Never judge others. You both know good and well how unexpected events can change who a person is. Always keep that in mind. You never know what someone else is experiencing within their own life.
-Question everything. Your love, your religion, your passions. If you don't have questions, you'll never find answers.
-Be accepting. Of everything. People's differences, their similarities, their choices, their personalities. Sometimes it takes a variety to make a good collection. The same goes for people.


It Ends with Us
I feel like everyone fakes who they really are, when deep down we’re all equal amounts of screwed up. Some of us are just better at hiding it than others.

I don’t think being a little guarded is a negative thing,” I say. “Naked truths aren’t always pretty.

There is no such thing as bad people. We’re all just people who sometimes do bad things.No one is exclusively bad, nor is anyone exclusively good. Some are just forced to work harder at suppressing the bad.

Point of Retreat

If I were a carpenter, I would build you a window to my soul.
But I would leave that window shut and locked,
so that every time you tried to look through it…all you would see is your own reflection.
You would see that my soul
is a reflection of you…

“Sometimes two people have to fall apart, to realize how much they need to fall back together"
Life’s hard. It’s even harder when you’re stupid.”― John Wayne
The heart of a man is no heart at all
If his heart isn’t loved by a woman.
The heart of a woman is no heart at all
If her heart isn’t loving a man.
But the heart of a man and a woman in love
Can be worse than not having a heart
Because at least if you have no heart at all
It can’t die when it breaks apart.

I’ll never be able to give you everything you deserve, but I’ll definitely spend the rest of my life trying.
I’m not asking you to marry me, I’m telling you to marry me, because I can’t live without you.
p.23 : Because of you. I love you because of you. Because of every single thing about you.
The points are not the point; the point is poetry










Tuesday, January 31, 2017

作為母親的我,我認為我的責任是
1)保持好的親子關係
2)使他們身心健康,快樂地成長
3)提高他們的IQ和EQ,讓他們無論在學習,做人或做事上都能得心應手

做人小人仔快5歲了,每日主要做的事情是:食,瞓,玩(包括看圖書,聽歌看卡通片學英文,當然唔比佢看多過2個鐘)。她冇上過任何興趣班,亦未開始教佢認字(依家佢只係認得26個英文字母,數目字同幾個日文字),亦未開始學寫字(除咗最近佢叫我教佢寫自己的名),但係我完全唔擔心什麽起跑線問題。我只關心佢有冇足夠睡眠(每日11個鐘),均衡營養,自理能力,玩咗D咩。從佢的行為中我看到了佢的創意,相像力,好奇心(佢問我咩係行星?點解會放屁?食物吞咗之後會點?還有心臟…於是我同佢上咗幾堂生物堂😅)。亦關心她從與其他小朋友的相處中有否學會分享,忍耐,關心,自我表達,聆聽等。個人認為健康的身體,樂觀的性格才能讓她快樂地成長,將來能夠愉快地學習。除非小朋友主動要求,否則我唔認為入讀小學前需要小朋友讀書寫字或去上佢地無興趣的興趣班。在他們弓小學中期前我想我不會太在意他們的學習成績。快樂健康的童年才是成功人生的根基。

Sunday, December 18, 2016

finger family

弟弟今朝醒咗就抱住我個頭,然後深情地望住我,用唱情歌的tone對住我唱finger family.

Thursday, December 15, 2016

弟弟被表白了

今日放學時,弟弟被表白了!同班有個英國小妹妹同弟弟講:「l love you!」然後想拖弟弟的手,點知弟弟唔理佢,又唔肯同佢拖手,结果小妹妹抱住佢媽媽喊。其實平時弟弟同小妹妹感情好好,一齊玩,一齊拖手散步,今日上堂時聽到老師話小妹妹要返英國過年時,佢仲好唔開心,唔知點解被表白時會係咁既反應。不過之後我叫佢比粒糖小妹妹,佢又肯比。