Not an ostrich

I am afraid
I am confused
I put my head into sand
So that i see nothing
I hear nothing
And I thought I could feel nothing
I could forget everything
But then I realize that i am not an ostrich
Who am I?
I want to be a bird
I want to fly high
I want to fly far away

Colleen Hoover

Slammed

-Find a balance between head and heart. Hopefully you've found that Lake, and you can help Kel sort it out when he gets to that point.

-Push your boundaries, that's what they're there for.

-I'm stealing this snippet from your favorite band, Lake. "Always remember there is nothing worth sharing, like the love that let us share our name."

-Don't take life too seriously. Punch it in the face when it needs a good hit. Laugh at it.

-And Laugh a lot. Never go a day without laughing at least once.

-Never judge others. You both know good and well how unexpected events can change who a person is. Always keep that in mind. You never know what someone else is experiencing within their own life.

-Question everything. Your love, your religion, your passions. If you don't have questions, you'll never find answers.

-Be accepting. Of everything. People's differences, their similarities, their choices, their personalities. Sometimes it takes a variety to make a good collection. The same goes for people.

It Ends with Us

I feel like everyone fakes who they really are, when deep down we’re all equal amounts of screwed up. Some of us are just better at hiding it than others.

I don’t think being a little guarded is a negative thing,” I say. “Naked truths aren’t always pretty.

There is no such thing as bad people. We’re all just people who sometimes do bad things.No one is exclusively bad, nor is anyone exclusively good. Some are just forced to work harder at suppressing the bad.

Point of Retreat

If I were a carpenter, I would build you a window to my soul.

But I would leave that window shut and locked,

so that every time you tried to look through it…all you would see is your own reflection.

You would see that my soul

is a reflection of you…

“Sometimes two people have to fall apart, to realize how much they need to fall back together"

Life’s hard. It’s even harder when you’re stupid.”― John Wayne

The heart of a man is no heart at all

If his heart isn’t loved by a woman.

The heart of a woman is no heart at all

If her heart isn’t loving a man.

But the heart of a man and a woman in love

Can be worse than not having a heart

Because at least if you have no heart at all

It can’t die when it breaks apart.

I’ll never be able to give you everything you deserve, but I’ll definitely spend the rest of my life trying.

I’m not asking you to marry me, I’m telling you to marry me, because I can’t live without you.

p.23 : Because of you. I love you because of you. Because of every single thing about you.

The points are not the point; the point is poetry

作為母親的我，我認為我的責任是
1）保持好的親子關係
2）使他們身心健康，快樂地成長
3）提高他們的IQ和EQ，讓他們無論在學習,做人或做事上都能得心應手

做人小人仔快5歲了,每日主要做的事情是:食,瞓,玩(包括看圖書,聽歌看卡通片學英文,當然唔比佢看多過2個鐘)。她冇上過任何興趣班,亦未開始教佢認字(依家佢只係認得26個英文字母,數目字同幾個日文字),亦未開始學寫字(除咗最近佢叫我教佢寫自己的名),但係我完全唔擔心什麽起跑線問題。我只關心佢有冇足夠睡眠(每日11個鐘),均衡營養,自理能力,玩咗D咩。從佢的行為中我看到了佢的創意,相像力,好奇心(佢問我咩係行星?點解會放屁?食物吞咗之後會點?還有心臟…於是我同佢上咗幾堂生物堂😅)。亦關心她從與其他小朋友的相處中有否學會分享,忍耐,關心,自我表達,聆聽等。個人認為健康的身體,樂觀的性格才能讓她快樂地成長,將來能夠愉快地學習。除非小朋友主動要求,否則我唔認為入讀小學前需要小朋友讀書寫字或去上佢地無興趣的興趣班。在他們弓小學中期前我想我不會太在意他們的學習成績。快樂健康的童年才是成功人生的根基。